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Entries from November 2007

Flex

November 11, 2007 · 2 Comments

So, at some point last year during K’s open enrollment for his health benefits, we decided to sign up for his Flex Plan.  Even though I work in the health benefits industry, we had not done this before because K was hesitant about it.  Of course, I understand the hesitation.  In case you are unaware, the premise behind the Flex account is that you are able to put pre-tax funds aside for qualified medical expenses, however, the account is use-it-or-loose-it.  The money goes to the employer if we don’t spend it all. 

At the time we decided to enroll, we had just completed an unsuccessful IVF and an failed attempt at a FET.  Even though we were both exhausted with the process, we both fully believed that we were going to have some kind of major medical expenses relating to fertility in 2007.  Here we are, today, November 11, 2007, and we have only used about 1/8 of the funds we have set aside. 

We decided that we needed to find a way to use the funds.  So, we started running through the list of things that we could spend the money on.  And in the process, we realized that it has been three years since we visited the eye doctor.  So, yesterday, we spent the better part of our saturday at the optomotrist’s office & then LensCrafters.  We came home with oodles of glasses.  While I don’t have any major problems with being able to see, my vision is getting worse with sitting in front of the computer longer and longer.  So, I got computer glasses as well as distance glasses (for tv & movies & long drives).  The distance ones are because of my astigmatism (which they just diagnosed yesterday).

K got a new pair too.  Plus, we both got sunglasses as well.  So, that’s 4 pairs of glasses & one set of lenses (replaced into my old reading frames).  And we have now spent half of our flex money.  Two months to go.

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Halloween 2007

November 1, 2007 · 3 Comments

I am a halloween scrooge.  K was working late on the big night, so I came home to spend the evening with my doggie.  The evening consisted of four action items:

  • Come home
  • Lock door
  • Turn out all the lights
  • Duck all kids looking in the windows
  • Turn on the TV
  • Turn on my computer
  • Crash on the couch

No halloween candy.  No trick-or-treating.  No kids at my door.  It was a huge relief.

Earlier in the evening, I took Macy to the vet.  The pumpkin splint came off and the stitches came out but a new bandage went on the foot to cover over the toe.  Apparently, there is a small spot left where three flaps of skin come together…it is the last spot that isn’t completely healed.  The vet was happy enough with the healing process and I am relieved.

The highlight of my day was my acupuncture.  I went in the middle of the day and it was beautifully soothing.  Monday and Tuesday were absolutely crazy at work so my stress levels were all maxed out when I arrived into B’s office on Wednesday.  He is great at getting me to take a couple of deep breaths and calm myself.  Once I lay back and B begins to insert the needles, I feel like I am almost in a trance of relaxation.  This time, I was so relaxed that I fell asleep…and awoke to a big honking snort of a snore that came out of my mouth!  Mortifying.

I have to say, even if I don’t get pregnant from the acupuncture, it is worth every visit!

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